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Tuesday, July 15, 2014

To wear the makeup, or to not wear the makeup.


I've noticed on the internet there has been this trend of either 
  1. Wearing makeup makes you less of a person than someone who doesn't wear makeup
  2. Women should stop 'tricking' men by wearing makeup 
To just begin with.  I am a licensed cosmetologist (as most know) and a free lance makeup artist. I am appalled at the idea that people think they are better than other people if they don't wear makeup. I'm not sure how a persons worth has to do with makeup. 

I think it is fantastic if a person feels comfortable in the skin she is given, and that she can feel confident like that. But there are girls who don't. And if they are able to find a smidgen of confidence in a jar of foundation, or a tube of lipstick whose to say they are less of a person? 

It irks me when a guy says that girls shouldn't wear makeup. Or that they like girl's 'natural' and that they would rather a girl wore 'leggings and a baggy sweat shirt'. But who made them so special that everything a woman does is for them? I'm not going to go all feminist in this because I probably could. But women aren't trying to trick men when they wear red lipstick, or a smokey eye. Women are being women, makeup is an expression of creativity no different than a guy who likes to fix cars. 

And for many women it is an art form. I'm a makeup artist because I love the art of it. Not because I want to 'fool' men. When I do a woman (or man)'s makeup what their SO thinks never crosses my mind. I think how can I make this person feel like a million bucks? How can I make them leave here with a smile. It's about a feeling in yourself, not about giving a feeling to someone else.

People are so stuck in deciding how people should and shouldn't be it's ridiculous. People have insecurities, man or woman. And if a bit of concealer makes them feel better. Good for them. If you feel wonderful with out it, good for them too. 

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